Basically......
met a nice girl (Girl A), got on well with her, she had to go home from uni for the summer 2 days after we met. Couple of nights back I told her that I really missed her, wanted to see her again, blah, blah.

Ok, last night I met a nice girl (Girl B), got on well with her, slept with her (we were drunk, natch), spent all day with her today talking and stuff and she is even more lovely than when she is drunk. Just got an email of Girl A saying she misses me and wants to meet up.
I feel like a right shit, and don't know what to do.

Matters aren't improved that I am off to Distortion next month and both Girls A & B will be there.

Oh bugger :(
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:15, archived)

tell girl A
you met some one and fucked (phrase it nicer) if she is ok with it, stay with her, if not, goto B.

WIN WIN!
(Kieren, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:17, archived)

sounds like a plan.
Thinking of saying to girl A (as nice as possible) that I`m not ready for a relationship just yet (only split up with my gf of 3 and a half years a couple of weeks back), and that I don`t want her to get hurt if she ends up being the rebound relationship.
All true in a way, but ommitting the small fact that is Girl B. This way, it is ok for me to shag other people.........right?
Not, I thought not.
/coat
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:34, archived)

what about this thing you are going to
where both of them will be? wont you have to be carefull that a dont see you with b? or she will wonder what the hell is going on
( Simon Wicks [Coo] is one of the Originals.., Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:40, archived)

good point
.
(Kieren, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:43, archived)

Hoping Girl A will have forgotten about me by then......
.....shit.

Basically, I`m just after some way of ensuring that Girl A doesn`t get hurt...well, as little as possible, anyway
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:43, archived)

kill her
swift and pain free
(Kieren, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:44, archived)

Hummm
Bit risky, girl b might wonder why the police keep asking you questions
( Simon Wicks [Coo] is one of the Originals.., Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:46, archived)

ok,
tell girl A that you want to stop seeing her because you have just come off of a real big relationship, and you dont want her getting hurt. Then ask girl B to stay away from you at this event because your Ex is there and you dont want any thing blowing off.
(Kieren, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:49, archived)

sounds reasonable.
I could just tell neither of them that I am going to be there.......
It's a pretty huge venue, so its doubtful I`ll bump into them, or if I do, probably only one of them.
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:55, archived)

might find
someone else when your there
hehe
( Simon Wicks [Coo] is one of the Originals.., Mon 17 Jun 2002, 2:07, archived)

Not unlikely really
Pulling is pretty easy in Notts, and I seem to have adopted it as my new hobby when pissed up
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 2:08, archived)

thats alright then
get a new one then you dont have to worry about the other 2, tell them to get together
hehe
( Simon Wicks [Coo] is one of the Originals.., Mon 17 Jun 2002, 2:24, archived)

Humm
You are in a bit of a pickle.
Wish i could help you out or give you help, but i canny do it.
( Simon Wicks [Coo] is one of the Originals.., Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:20, archived)

or,
you could send Girl A to me, she seems nice
(Kieren, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:41, archived)

She is very nice.
A bit quiet, but I think that is cos she is shy (although the things she let me do when we met in the club wouldn't confirm this!)
Girl B is 2 yrs older and really easy to talk to. (incidently, she is the (more attractive) best mate of a girl I pulled a week or so ago, who ended up blowing me out. That'll teach her! :p)
( Spunkmeyer, Mon 17 Jun 2002, 1:47, archived)