Someone stole naked pictures of me. This is what I did about it – video
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I might be a bit of a misogynist in saying 'Keep your knickers on when there's a camera about?' Just sayin' like
( , Sun 25 Jan 2015, 22:51, Share, Reply)
I might be a bit of a misogynist in saying 'Keep your knickers on when there's a camera about?' Just sayin' like
( , Sun 25 Jan 2015, 22:51, Share, Reply)
Well, that's certainly one way to do it.
Alternatively, just be sensible human being and exercise extreme caution in how you store/share them.
( , Sun 25 Jan 2015, 23:28, Share, Reply)
Alternatively, just be sensible human being and exercise extreme caution in how you store/share them.
( , Sun 25 Jan 2015, 23:28, Share, Reply)
I dunno man, if you absolutely, positively feel an inescapable yearning for pictures of yourself in the nip (and to what narcissistic end is anyone's guess), there's a simple solution.
Keep your face out of it.
It's not hard, a simple matter of framing, or cropping if required. If these are purportedly for your partner, they will know it's you without having to see your face, as they have already seen you nude, and there's always plausible deniability to anyone else.
I'm not denigrating those who choose to use their smartphones (as tends to be the case) for that purpose, but to use a little aesthetic judgement would go a long way. Not hating, just saying.
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 0:26, Share, Reply)
it was her ex posting the stuff online - and taking the pics in the first place
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:25, Share, Reply)
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:25, Share, Reply)
or use a cctv camera to take your pics
That way no one will see your face clearly
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 9:00, Share, Reply)
That way no one will see your face clearly
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 9:00, Share, Reply)
She does make her point at high speed, and like many I can't understand why you would take naked pics and post them on the internet at all in the first place,
but if you think about something you like doing that others may find unfathomable e.g. listening to loud music when you know it's bad for your hearing, it's easier to get that it's the idea of consent that's the heart of the matter.
Even though I have tinnitus I'm happy to expose myself to loud music without earplugs if it's someone I really like, whereas if I have to walk past an amplified busker in a tube station it drives me nuts because he's deafening me without my consent. Maybe that's a rubbish analogy but it works for me.
More relevant perhaps: I'm happy to post the occasional photo of myself on Facebook, doing something silly or otherwise, but I can't stand it if anyone else does and tags it.
What I DO know though is that she is well gorgeous.
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 3:41, Share, Reply)
but if you think about something you like doing that others may find unfathomable e.g. listening to loud music when you know it's bad for your hearing, it's easier to get that it's the idea of consent that's the heart of the matter.
Even though I have tinnitus I'm happy to expose myself to loud music without earplugs if it's someone I really like, whereas if I have to walk past an amplified busker in a tube station it drives me nuts because he's deafening me without my consent. Maybe that's a rubbish analogy but it works for me.
More relevant perhaps: I'm happy to post the occasional photo of myself on Facebook, doing something silly or otherwise, but I can't stand it if anyone else does and tags it.
What I DO know though is that she is well gorgeous.
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 3:41, Share, Reply)
You also don't get called a slut and a whore by strangers for wearing earplugs
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:35, Share, Reply)
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:35, Share, Reply)
Send me more pictures of you wearing earplugs
or I'll send a picture of you wearing earplugs to your boss with a vague suggestion that you wear them all the time during meetings
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 9:05, Share, Reply)
or I'll send a picture of you wearing earplugs to your boss with a vague suggestion that you wear them all the time during meetings
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 9:05, Share, Reply)
So if you and Mrs Jams fooled around with a camera during sexy time
it would be your fault if she decided to upload it to the internet?
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:26, Share, Reply)
it would be your fault if she decided to upload it to the internet?
( , Mon 26 Jan 2015, 8:26, Share, Reply)