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yes, but then you only learn by going through, and coming out the other end of stuff like the above. You can't live by other peoples standards forever* plus you are now happily with a hunk of your dreams :)


*unless you are a follower of all kinds of religions that tell you how to live / think / act / believe
(Halfy By light alone, Wed 10 Dec 2008, 14:28, 1 reply)

And oh, did I learn...
I learned a LOT, most of it the hard way :(

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with older men. Only the control freak ones. And my bloody-mindedness didn't help, as I was determined to prove people wrong who said it would never last and that he had "brainwashed" me.

But *pithiness warning* it did make me who I am today, and I wouldn't change that.
( warmfuzzies Isn't here, Wed 10 Dec 2008, 16:43, closed)

silver linings
and suchlike!

I just crash on and make stupid mistakes all the time, not sure if its more fun or not but does leave an impressive trail of carnage!
(Halfy By light alone, Wed 10 Dec 2008, 17:38, closed)