what is the kink in question you wish to try out
do you fantasise about shitting on girl's chests?
(TheManWithThePlan cussed your mum on, Thu 22 Oct 2009, 17:23, 1 reply)

the usual stuff
anal, threesome, a bit of home-made porn, sex on drugs...nothing particularly degrading, sordid or out of the ordinary
( emvee cruor deo cruoris, Thu 22 Oct 2009, 17:31, closed)

while
I can see why some girls might not want that, there is nothing in that list to be embarassed about. It's pretty shitty of them to try to make you feel bad about it. Plus they should have thought about how it makes them appear insecure enough to believe they have to pretend to be kinky for someone to be attracted to them
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Thu 22 Oct 2009, 18:03, closed)

I fear
you might simply be too "nice" for your own good. I can't believe you have had the misfortune to meet a succession of totally strait-laced Mary Poppins', there can't be that many of them about. These days it's rarer to meet one of them than a rabid cock-monster!

Rather than politely waiting for a woman to indulge you in your interests, you need to take the initiative. If she doesn't flip out when you suggest something, act on it, soon.
Some women ARE actually well up for it (whatever particular "it" you are into) but prefer to be led astray by their filthy minded boyfriend, you know, him with a one-track mind. Then, when they can blame him for their antics they can immerse themselves in all the fun of the fair without any guilt. Most of the time it will be a case of lighting the blue touchpaper.......

So don't be afraid, grab the bull by the horn(s) and JUST DO IT. Life's way too short to be sitting there wishing your Mrs would take it up the wrong 'un, she may well be sitting there wishing you would grab her and "force" a bum-shagging on her. After leathering her arse. With a kipper. Whilst dressed as a vicar.

He who dares wins, Rodney. So long as you recognise when she REALLY doesn't want to do something, as opposed to making token noises of protest, you will find a world of filth opening up to you.

And if the lass is apalled by your foibles don't stay there under layers of guilt. Give her the boot and move on, you weren't compatible. What can be sadder than someone going through life scared of revealing their turn-ons? Better to get it out in the open early on, then get on with life and enjoy your liberated sex life. If you were into something remotely kinky, maybe finding someone to indulge with you might be a struggle, but the things you mention above are so pedestrian as to be totally vanilla. (Well, to me anyway! And I KNOW I won't be alone)
(Rsoles, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 21:41, closed)