5 Years and counting...
one day about 5 years ago I was collecting for a charity with my cadets. when I looked in a shop window and saw the most beautiful girl I've ever met.

I have spent the last 5 Years being her "friend" I even became good friends with her friends and even flat-shared with some of them. I've never kept my feelings a from her, I've told her dozens of times that im in love with her. I fear I've become a security blanket for her. I'm the one she tuns to when everything turns sour.

The most recent of dramas being her finding out that her BF of 1 and a half years, has a wife! As much as I can see that im being used to comfort her in times of need. The Feelings I have for her keep pushing me back to her.

just a quick vote... how many of you see sitting in bed in PJ's watching dvd's cuddled in, something you do with a "friend"??? Oh and Her insisting that I run my fingers through her hair and tickle the (erogenous) back of her kneck???

Ah maybe someone here can help me out!
(tammybear1985, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 3:44, 8 replies)

wine + rohypnol
alternatively, grow a spine and go find a girl whos not a sefish manipulative bitch
(Lovefist233 Bothering Sheep since..., Sat 30 Aug 2008, 3:48, closed)

I hate to agree with lovefist, but I do.
It's the perfect advice for this situation.
(jessemoya, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 4:06, closed)

BTSIDIGTTS
Move on. Seriously. I've spent too long in a similar situation in the past and it really wasn't worth the constant stress and disappointment.
( SteamedCleaner, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 6:00, closed)

chin up lad
This sounds so familiar to me only its not 5 years its just gone 10! The worst was when her ex b/f beat her up managed to get rid of the prick though. Iv come to the conclusion that no matter what you say or do it wont make any difference . However you should treasure the friendship as i do becasuse she has been there for me when the chips have been pissed on
(welgar, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 6:50, closed)

Been there, done that
Sorry to say, but the hard fact of the matter is that you *never* hear a story of someone being in love for years - while the object of their desire has a string of boyfriends but just uses the person as a shoulder - and then sometime in the future the girl eventually discovers that she really does love him.

It just doesn't happen. Learned that the hard way myself.
(EuroSong I love horse meat: best of all the animals, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 10:44, closed)

Run, dude.
Run far. Run fast. Don't look back.
( The Resident Loon Not a demographic. Do not measure., Sat 30 Aug 2008, 12:03, closed)

5 years
Sounds like you don't mind getting a right using.

You can continue to wait (for nothing to happen), or make your move and slip her a crippler.

You do need to move on, there's any amount of wonderful women who need more than a neck rub. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Good luck.
(alanrbnsn, Sat 30 Aug 2008, 14:47, closed)

She's using you
And a very mean person she is too. ok, maybe not, but what she's doing certainly isn't right. Get some self-respect man and get yourself someone who wants you because they want YOU!!
(The Apeface Cherub is not a cunty-uber-cunt, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 7:13, closed)