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This is a question Will you go out with me?

"Bloody Kraut, a" asks, "How did you get your current flame to go out with you? If they turned you down, how bad was it?"

Was it all romantic? Or were the beer goggles particularly strong that night?

(, Thu 28 Aug 2008, 17:32)
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Is it only me?
My past 2 relationships have stemmed from meeting ladies online, both met randomly from friends of friends and hit it off well.

My lady of the moment is such an amazing girl, cute, sarcastic and abit filthy - It's been 2½ years now and I can't imagine being with anyone else. First time we met she launched into a hug and I ended up asking her out whilst we were spooning, clothed though I am romantic after all... hah

Off Topic from here on out.

But the sad thing is I can see if any tragedy did befall this relationship I would most likely meet my next potential partner online before meeting with them and hitting it off.

See this is where I wonder if it's only me. When I used to head out with a futile attempt to 'pull' I would be upstaged by 1 of 2 possible types of males.
Now I would say I'm in the middle of the spectrum, I like my stereotypical masculinity (short hair, real ales & ciders, understated clothing) but I also like to take care of myself (using face & hair products, keeping an up to date wardrobe and keeping fit).
But if I headed to a normal pub/club I would always luck out to the 14 stone guy built like a brick shit house, skin head and squeezed into a FCUK shirt (this was a few years ago); and if I went to the indie more alternative clubs I had to put up with being turned down for arrogant, long haired fuckers with sparkly shoes and cardigans drinking a blue WKD.

Now as you can imagine I got abit fed up and instead used nights out to dance like an idiot and have a laugh and search for companionship in other places; I just never understood why I needed to either shovel protein shake down my throat or spend all my money on my hair in order to impress drunk women.
(, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 16:27, 4 replies)
Protein shake...
Tissue?
(, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 16:29, closed)
No thanks,
I swallow.
(, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 16:52, closed)
To be fair though
You're only missing out on a drunk shag. I don't think anyone has ever formed a meaningful relationship with anyone they met in a club.
(, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 17:06, closed)
@Marlboro
I'm going to disagree there,

My last 2 relationships have been from clubs or bars, the first one was 5 years, but after about 2 we found out we weren't that compatible.

The second is about 7 months now and going strong! But this one was a 2 nights spent talking and laughing before any sexytime
(, Wed 3 Sep 2008, 9:38, closed)

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