What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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Not the nicest thing I've ever done...I've only ever had to really dump someone once and it was appalling!
We'd been seeing each other in my home city for a bout 8 months and then he had to go back home to his home city as he'd been in uni and was finished with his degree. I decided (in my naivety) to see if I could get a job there and so carry on the relationship. God knows why though, he was the messiest hygiene objector ever, wore shoelaces wrapped round his wrists that smelled like wet dog when water got on them and every one of his white shirts had a grey tide mark on it.. ICK!
After about two weeks of looking I found a job in a hospital that offered nurses halls accommodation in the city centre. So I took it up and set a date to move.
Then when I moved to the city and settled the guy changed completely. Became very clingy and got in a huff cos he couldn't stay over (strict rules in my halls and it was £160 a month - didn't wanna take the piss, also he lived MILES away in the stix) so much so I decided to end it. This took a while because I'd obviously just moved to be with him and didn't really know anyone else much.
So I sat him down for "the talk" he cries and he wails and in the end I get the porter to escort/drag him out. Thinking thats that...
OH NO
Over the next few days he calls constantly, the usual. Turns up at work and my halls as well. Generally stalk-a-licious crap!
During this pleasant interlude I'm calling him and emailing telling him to leave me be and so forth... then ignoring it all... I tried it all!
Eventually I gave in and took him back.
Then took him back to mine.. undressed him and told him he actually repulsed me physically. threw his clothes out of my 6th floor window and told him to leave me the hell alone or I'd get a restraining order.
He finally got the message when he turned up to a club I was at and busted me with another guy.. only after starting on the guy and the guy kicking my ex's ass...
I see him from time to time now and he's so bitter you could squeeze him into a good G&T which is incidentally what I need every time I run into him!
Apologies for length - still new to this and need practice at making it shorter!
(, Thu 12 Jun 2008, 10:43, Reply)
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