Being faithful
Just come back from a holiday to celebrate three years together with my fiancée. A holiday in Malia - Greek resort half way between Ibiza and Blackpool. Things were going less than great between us, but I saw the holiday as a turning point in our relationship, the time when I would cease my neglectful ways, show her how worthy I was of her attentions, and begin appreciating the lady with whom I was to spend the rest of my life.

She also saw the holiday as a turning point in our relationship. Actually, that's a lie. She saw the turning point somewhere between booking the holiday, and going on it. She just didn't want to lose out on the holiday. So she waited. Until the day we got back. Then dumped me. For my best mate.

Hardest part - the place was absolutely packed with easy women, and I could spent each night in a different bed, and gathered myself a full collection of STDs had I known what was coming. As it was, I stayed with her, and didn't get any. For two weeks. Not even on the night of our three year anniversary.


However:
Now I'm bitter, and as a result am brutally honest with women. For some reason, when telling a girl that I'm interested in being friends, maybe a date, probably sleeping with her if it's on the cards, but certainly nothing more because I'm loving the single life too much, they seem to fall at my feet. So it all works out in the end. Guys: complete honesty saves a huge amount of headaches when it comes to women, and a failure to be at all defensive when challenged for your principles is the most effective way to disarm an attack EVER. Example: "So you want to sleep with me, but still going on dates with other girls and sleeping with them?!?" "Yes, that's about the size of it"
(bblgoose, Fri 6 Oct 2006, 22:40, Reply)