» We have to talk

The delay between the conversation and them leaving
I'd been with my insane girlfriend for a couple of years. We'd had a relationship while we were at separate universities - and would see each other every second or third weekend.

Anyway, after I graduated and got a job, I discovered I really liked a friend of hers and me and this friend decided to give it a go. All I had to do was have TheChat with my gf, and the path was clear. Swap InsaneCurrentGirlfriend (ICG) for SaneFutureGirlfriend (SFG)

How hard could it be? SFG knew when ICG was coming up to see me and all I'd do was dump her then 2 out of the 3 of us would be happy.

My real worry was how the weekend would pan out. Do I dump her when she arrives on the Friday, which seemed a bit rude, or wait till the Sunday as she was leaving, thus having to 'know' her for the rest of the weekend? SCG would find out about this (the two were friends) and I didn't want to risk upsetting her.

So I decided to be brutal and dump her when she arrived. She'd cry a bit. Kick me in the shins and drive home. Painful but short.

"Ding-Dong". She arrived. Came in and starting moaning about her mother.

"We need to talk". She stops talking.

"I don't want to see you anymore. I like your friend." She starts crying.

"Can I stay till Sunday?"

"Yes" (I'd clearly disenagaged my brain).


So I had ICG in my small flat, distraught, crying and trying to get back together with me for the rest of the blooming weekend.

That was one of the longest weekends of my life. And I felt obliged to give her a sympathy blow-job which SFG found out about, but fortunately forgave me for.

Length? About 2 days too long.
(Tue 24th Apr 2007, 13:43, More)