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B3TA has kept me sane through my final term of university... so thankyou to the ramblings of Pooflake and Spankyhanky who amongst others have kept me crying with laughter! Now its time to join the real world.
For those of you that care, Im female, 21yrs old, 5ft 11, Brunette. A recent graduate from university trying to decide what to do with my life whilst travelling SE Asia and maintaining friendships back home in the depths of Hampshire.
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B3TA has kept me sane through my final term of university... so thankyou to the ramblings of Pooflake and Spankyhanky who amongst others have kept me crying with laughter! Now its time to join the real world.
For those of you that care, Im female, 21yrs old, 5ft 11, Brunette. A recent graduate from university trying to decide what to do with my life whilst travelling SE Asia and maintaining friendships back home in the depths of Hampshire.
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Losing my virginity
My first B3TA post so please be nice. I like to think that upper school wasn't too hideous, however there was one fellow student in particular who liked to destroy what little confidence my group of friends had on a weekly basis. We were on the fringe of school society, hardly known by the popular crowd however fast forward five years and we are all still the best of friends in contrast to those who had nothing better to do than to take the piss. the point of this post you ask? my reaction to the death of the 'one fellow student', it doesn't matter how, (alcohol induced) what matters is the reaction of those whose lives he ridiculed. The words; 'sorely missed,' 'one in a millon,' and 'a really good mate' spewed by some of those he chose to bully.
My anger? both at the hypocrisy of some of these reactions and the lack of courage people showed in their memories of him on the 'memorial facebook group'. Death of anyone sudden is a tragedy for those who hold that individual dear, however what are you to do when someone who tried to routinely humiliate you is now immortalised in local culture as an 'angel'....
bitter you might suggest?
No..... just angry that those who should have stood up for themselves were the first in the line to kiss arse.
The posts will improve with experience... so will the humour, that I can guarantee!
(Sun 17th May 2009, 0:25, More)
Losing my virginity
My first B3TA post so please be nice. I like to think that upper school wasn't too hideous, however there was one fellow student in particular who liked to destroy what little confidence my group of friends had on a weekly basis. We were on the fringe of school society, hardly known by the popular crowd however fast forward five years and we are all still the best of friends in contrast to those who had nothing better to do than to take the piss. the point of this post you ask? my reaction to the death of the 'one fellow student', it doesn't matter how, (alcohol induced) what matters is the reaction of those whose lives he ridiculed. The words; 'sorely missed,' 'one in a millon,' and 'a really good mate' spewed by some of those he chose to bully.
My anger? both at the hypocrisy of some of these reactions and the lack of courage people showed in their memories of him on the 'memorial facebook group'. Death of anyone sudden is a tragedy for those who hold that individual dear, however what are you to do when someone who tried to routinely humiliate you is now immortalised in local culture as an 'angel'....
bitter you might suggest?
No..... just angry that those who should have stood up for themselves were the first in the line to kiss arse.
The posts will improve with experience... so will the humour, that I can guarantee!
(Sun 17th May 2009, 0:25, More)