Sensible man.
I can't help but think that, unless you are stinking rich, spending a large chunk of money on a gesture is a poor way to start into a life of shared resources.
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Sun 11 Feb 2007, 22:58,
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I made my wife's wedding ring myself by hand
I also made our wedding cake and, despite getting hung up in a cave by it, I have not let go of my wedding ring (which my wife made for me) since she put it on my finger. When I had it mended after the caving incident I found a jeweller who was willing to let me do the work under her guidance.
If I'd spent £5k of the house deposit on a proposal I think Jim would have kicked my arse.
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Sun 11 Feb 2007, 23:10,
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If I'd spent £5k of the house deposit on a proposal I think Jim would have kicked my arse.