@Chickenlady
I dream of my ex being like you...my ex (since she left and divorced me with ne'er a word) has volunteered next to nothing. Time I get with my son? Fought for it in court.

I didn't see him at Christmas, on his first birthday, my first Father's Day as a dad, missed his first step, his first word over the 4 months (he was 4 months old when this started) she stopped him spending any time with me at all. My elderly parents (also having suffered lies and accusations) have seen their grandson for less than half of his life.

When I'm with him, I'm a normal dad...right until the point I deliver him after my alloted few hours a week back to my ex mother in law (who is at the hand overs because my ex is `too scared' of me).

Not an experience to recommend, people!
(Audax Victor, Mon 21 Apr 2008, 15:46, Reply)