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# Is it wrong that I've sent three more texts to her?


(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:39, archived)
# to whom?
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:40, archived)
# My friend who is a girl,who is not my wife.



(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:41, archived)
# what are you doing that could be considered nawty?
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:43, archived)
# Nothing.
Text stalking!!

EDIT: Not even text stalking, I was trying to wind Sushi up, but he's gone or deliberately not replyin......BASTARD!!!
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:43, archived)
# Sorry to butt in
I would say it all depends on your intentions
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:43, archived)
# Only to go out and have a good time.



(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:46, archived)
# I have a friend
I meet with her often, and she happens to be utterly gorgeous

My girlfriend isn't too happy but accepts it because I'm open about meeting for drinks etc. As long as you aren't making your wife feel like she comes second I'm sure you won't have troubles
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:50, archived)
# I'm sure if you explain it like that to your wife it'll be fine
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:50, archived)
# My wife doesn't mind at all.
They've met.

In fact she say my wife has a fit body!!
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 12:56, archived)
# If you can get a no strings threesome
then all the better :-D
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:02, archived)
# You absolute bastard.
That's one of those stubborn mental images which even mind bleach won't shift.

*shudder*
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:05, archived)
# I asked thet weeks ago!!!
Me anD her anD her then girfriend too!!

No chance in any combination!!
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:08, archived)
# going out and having a 'good time'
was what cause me to be divorced after 7 years of marriage. Both my wife and I were guilty of cultivating relationships that never should have been.
It took years to sort out the trust issues and whilst we got over it, remarried and started a family it has been very, very hard work.

All I can say to you, from the benefit of hindsight is that you need to be very careful in what you do and should consider all the implications before proceeding.
You will tell your wife lies regardless of what you believe now but don't make the mistake of trying to justify any indiscretion by telling lies to yourself. Because you will want to do that too.

Sorry that was a bit serious.
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:01, archived)
# We are just really good friends....
Unless the "too many texts thing" has pissed her off, but they were just a wind up.Which she should know!!
We will never get together , cos she is gay.
I've told her i fancy her,but would never make a move.
She told me If I did, she'd deck me twice...
Once for making a move and again for cheating on my wife.
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:05, archived)
# I spoke before knowing the facts.
And considered deleting this personal info. But I think it's good advice for anyone.
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:06, archived)
# Top advice it is too.
I could never go out with a straight girl, for the same reason!
Lesbo's FTW!
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:16, archived)
# been there, done that
and not a wife in sight. Ahh, ecstasy was a marvellous thing ;)
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:19, archived)
# Serious is fine for something as important as that.
Thank you for the wise words. People don't talk enough about this sort of important stuff.
(, Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:15, archived)