Other than...
...one of my girlfriends when I was at school, (who was the same age as me - the rest were older) and a medical student when I was 26-28 (she was 18-20), every woman I have slept with/been out with/married has been older than me. Usually by 5-10 years.

The medical student was a real sweetheart - generous, funny and kinky as all hell - but there's something about an older woman.

Maybe it's because she's there looking back in time at where you are, and you can feel the weight of that experience.

Maybe it's because in some cases (sorry to sound misogynistic - I don't mean it that way) she validates her own beauty and vitality by proving that she can snare a younger man.

Whatever the case, an older partner is definitely my preference.

Just about the only thing to watch out for is catching yourself imagining the line of men which stretches into the distance who have, in the last 20-30 years, watched their sauce drip out of her labia. I am *definitely* not the jealous type, but this really isn't pleasant.

Of course if you believe the statistics, the same is apparently true of anyone over 14 these days.
(Guizmeaux, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 17:55, Reply)