Thanks...
I've been stewing all day about whether or not I'm doing the right thing.

I think the way I may end up handling it as to bring back his boom box and the other odds and ends he's left in my yard and leave them on his step without a word, wait a week or two and then bring the saw back to him with a long hard conversation as to why I finally lost my patience. (I really don't want the saw, and not having it will mean he can't do stone work. I don't want to ruin him- I just really want to shake him up, hard.)

I feel guilty about this, but... a month of living with a pile of rocks in my back yard and a very unhappy girlfriend because he couldn't be arsed to stay sober and get himself where he said he would be at the time he promised to be there, or even to be home when he said he would be is just too damn much. I've gone over to his place several times after he said he'd be there and never showed and been nice about it. I've been nothing but patient and reasonable. But fucking off for a weekend and skipping out on me yet again because he couldn't be arsed to do what he swore he would do was just more than I could stand...
( The Resident Loon Not a demographic. Do not measure., Tue 27 May 2008, 20:39, Reply)