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@BarryChuckle
Pull yourself together and be patient. She's probably got things she needs to be doing (you did say she was at work). Just a word of advice: girls can be put off by this overly needy behaviour - the line between flattery and creepiness is a very thin one. Don't send her another text unless you're absolutely certain she didn't get the first one.

@CHCB
I'd say about 5 or six days or possibly later - should give some time to cool off. If you know when he's most likely to be sober, that would be the best time to call him (IIRC, the break-up happened when he was drunk). You could say that if he tells you what was on his mind and you're satisfied with the explanation of his behaviour, you'd consider still being friends. From what little I know of him, he spent a whole day getting drunk, so assuming he has a job with regular work-hours, the best time to catch him would be just as soon as he gets home (assuming he isn’t going to the pub first). Weekends would be a bad time for this.
( mistaspakkaman and the inedible shifting caterpillars, Wed 28 May 2008, 17:36, Reply)