The Lovers Guide and various
I was 14 when I discovered The Lovers Guide and various other 'better sex' books under my Fathers side of the bed. And being a latchkey kid I was able to access them on a fairly regular basis.

If I'm honest, I used them for wank material initially. The pictures and descriptions of various positions easily aroused my young loins, before they became desensitized by the ease of access to internet porn as I got older.

After a while though, I started to take notice of what was actually written in the books, to enjoy my own masturbatory explorations more. I'd use the "wank to the point of cumming and then squeeze the glans" technique repeatedly to build up a better orgasm, in the process training myself not to shoot my load to soon. I read about how to arouse a woman; the erogenous zones, how to caress nipples perfectly, how to perform oral sex correctly, how to pleasure a woman with my fingers and so on.

By the time I lost my virginity at 18 to my first girlfriend, I was a master of all things sexual and got to actually put them in to practice. I'm not going to even try to rival FrankSpencer or Chicken Lady in my descriptions, but I brought her to orgasm with my fingers, then my tongue and then during intercourse. Of course with all the 'squeeze technique' I'd been doing, I lasted for bloody ages as well. Too long (you know, when 'it' starts to go numb). It was a bloody good sex life we had. Life changing.

The GF and myself split up a couple of years later, young love and all that, and I went through a very depressed period. But what I didn't realise was how much girls talked. Throughout our relationship she'd been telling all of her girl friends how great I was in the sack. She moved away from the area not long after and all of a sudden I had 5 or 6 girls all vying for my attention! Smurf had never been so popular! So I let them take turns (I know that sounds incredibly cocky, but I was only 20!). It was one of the best periods of my life. I actually got tired of having sex in the end. Mainly because some women can be really greedy. You give them an earth moving orgasm with your tongue and they give you a half-hearted blowjob in return.

Anyway, I'm beginning to ramble. So thank you The Lovers Guide for ensuring that losing my virginity wasn't a fumbling, quick and regrettable experience, but an amazing experience for both of us. Also for providing me with a sexual education that they could never teach you in school!
(Big Smurf Brush me daddy-O, Thu 15 May 2008, 17:02, 8 replies)

Marry me
^
(happylittletulip helpless and delicious, Thu 15 May 2008, 17:04, closed)

Hehe
Thank you. But only Mrs Smurf gets the benefit of my pubescent reading now I'm afraid. :0)
(Big Smurf Brush me daddy-O, Thu 15 May 2008, 17:07, closed)

As one who got her sex education from
Jackie Collins and Jilly Cooper, I envy you. Wish my parents had had that kind of book!
(TheWeeWitch hasn't been here much recently .., Thu 15 May 2008, 17:09, closed)

My brother
got his sex education from Anime. I suspect that if his partner doesn't have blue or pink hair, he may not be able to perform....
(Axeman Jim, Thu 15 May 2008, 17:30, closed)

If only guys like you were not so thin on the ground.
Sex education for all!!
( girlinthehole, Thu 15 May 2008, 19:39, closed)

@BGB - Nah, Sex TRAINING for all!
Mind you, every now and again I end up in a debate about the difference between training and education. The line I always tend to use (which seems to shut down the discussion) is:

"Well, if you had a daughter, and she was being told about sex at school, which would you rather she was given? Sex Education or Sex Training?"
( Fireflier La la la la, not listening on, Thu 15 May 2008, 22:09, closed)

@Fireflier
Sex education if it was my daughter, sex training if it was my son. Let's face it, men need more training than women.
(Big Smurf Brush me daddy-O, Thu 15 May 2008, 22:24, closed)

Sex Training
(Hmm) New game for the Wii and DS perhaps ?

I'll get me design hat on...
( DukeEuphoria Comes highly reccomended, Fri 16 May 2008, 14:22, closed)