There is a big part of me that wants to try to confront him.
I don't know if I've got the guts, though. Or whether it's really any of my business.

Thanks, though.
(Gravity's Raincoat, Fri 10 May 2013, 17:10, 1 reply)

Why bother writing this then.
it would have been easier to have blurted out the above than write the story and replies. What do you want people to say? Do something or don't... but if you don't, and let's face it if you haven't since 2006 you're unlikely to, stop moaning about it.

The likelyhood is that any breakthrough will be short lived and form some kind of needy reliance in your direction. So don't feel like it's your responisibilty.

What you could do is keep a miniture bottle if wine on you and make him dance for you during tedious meetings, or ride on his back dangling vino on the end of a fishing line in front of his nose. Of course you're as likely to do that as you are try and help the guy or indeed try and find another job yourself. Probably.
( @><|= w0nu!) or cunt to my friends, Tue 14 May 2013, 7:37, closed)