@mistaspakkaman meh..
storm in a b cup mate, bob posted (brilliantly) about a horrible experience from some sexist middle aged men on a train who hassled her then called her a dyke

i made a joke about her looking dykey, which not everyone saw the humour in (even though bob did)

i then rubbed salt in the wound by posting an apparently grovelling apology but this was ironically only based on her being 'fit'

not everyone got the irony

but we got it all cleared up and bob and i are friends - its all in the replies to bobs post
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Thu 8 May 2008, 10:56, Reply)