What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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HmmmmIn theory this is great, but relationships are about openness and honesty and really playing a game with someone to hold their interest is neither.
I think that the key to a healthy relationship is to enjoy your own interests rather than put your life on hold for another person. If you have a little less time to see them because you are doing other things like seeing your friends or going to the gym then it's more likely to work.
To be fair, I had a chat with my other half, well it was more of a full scale row over something else, and I told him that I wanted to see less of him and spend more time chilling out, getting washing done, seeing my friends, reading a book because although I think he's awesome, some of the time we were spending together was not 'quality'. Thing is I knew he felt the same but just didn't say anuything about it.
Hope that helps in some way.
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