Don't Panic!
My personal experience is that It Get's Better. It must have done*, or we'd never have had the second helping!

Two babes are actually less of a handful in some ways, because they can give each other attention instead of just looking to you. And no-one makes them laugh like they make each other laugh.

You got more back from them, after a while...starting at 6 weeks with a smile, you'll struggle to remember all the milestones* as they slowly and joyfully develop into something more resembling an independant human being. Then, it's more like being responsible for someone who is staggeringly drunk. Then, they start talking and you realise that they learnt to listen first and now it's like having a voice recorder in your back pocket that keeps going off by itself. Now's the time to realise that you should have curtailed your free and colourful vocabulary at least a month ago. And so it goes on, like levels in a video game.

Best parental advice I received: "Choose your battles!"
And if you want babies to sleep through the night, read 'the baby whisperer'

Good luck!

* - I may not have been awake enough to notice.

PS If Ebay sold Dull Moments, I would bid for one.
(CADmonkey rollllllllled another one, just like the other one, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 14:01, 1 reply)

you can have our 3 teen boys for free.
( enoughblueskyforsailorstrousers, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 8:12, closed)