Being a rather well-cushioned woman
and probably what some of you would refer to as 'whale-sized, I thought I should add my experience to the mix to balance things up.

As I have said, I am a big girl. What would be termed a BBW. When single, I used a couple of BBW dating sites (not wishing to waste my time on men who were likely to behave like some in the answers to this QOTW). I also used a 'normal' dating site, out of curiosity. I was quite honest about my weight, and never led anyone on. I'm only interested in a man who will appreciate what he is going to get after all ;

I have to say it was fun. Chubby-chasers are generally lovely, attractive, intelligent, and charming. However the men I got chatting to on 'normal' sites were slightly odd. Mainly one guy who claimed to be the lead singer of a little known mancunian band (They are called Politburo, I think they are still around but not sure).

Anyhoo, we got chatting on Yahoo messenger, and after about 5 minutes he decides to tell me he is wearing an old pair of underpants his father had given him.

An old pair of brown nylon Y-FRONTS.

And they are itching him slightly.

To cut a long story short, this guy messaged me incessantly, and I was quite polite to him, even to the point of counselling him when he felt a bit low. He kept on mentioning how useful it would be to get advice from a witch (meaning me) regarding what it was like on the 'other side' as he kept thinking how easy it would be to kill himself.

Eventually he asked me out on a date, and I blocked him.

There was also a 19 year old economics student, who was a virgin. He stalked me over msn and I had to change my account 3 times before I got rid of him. There was also one bloke who printed off the photo on my yahoo profile, and kept it on his desk at work, telling everyone I was his 'girlfriend'. I'd only spoke to him twice.

I'm so glad I'm not single any more.
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