Hahahahahaha!
I point at you with my fingers Mr.Miggyman.

I who have limped through this life with a spanner in one hand and walking stick in the other. Who have built tiny creatures out of thrown away trash to skitter around my kitchen at night and be pounced upon by pussycats who like also to sleep on my head.

I hear what you say, and I understand it, in places I even agree. To let your life drip away piece at a time in order to conform to someone else's idea of success or failure means you lose no matter how tightly you cling to that conformity.

But to declare your own win conditions, yae even though that might include kids, to make that decision an bounce into it with joy in your heart and every ounce of energy you can muster.
That is victory.
( DukeEuphoria Comes highly reccomended, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 10:55, Reply)