Naked
That sounds a bit vanilla, I know, but bear with me. I'm what some people call a naturist (I don't do labels, and there are lots of things that some people who DO call themselves naturists seem to like and believe which I don't), in that I like to be naked a lot, specially when the weather is good, and especially on the beach.

Now, I'll admit that I think most people look better naked than they do in swimsuits, but being surrounded by naked people is not really a turn-on, it's just nice, freeing and relaxing. I certainly don't wander around with the raging horn, staring at tits.

There is one thing, however, which really does it for me, and that's when someone (and for me, it needs to be a woman) is not quite sure whether to take their clothes off, and has to screw up their courage to take the plunge. That moment of hesitation, the slight feelings of panic and unreality that are going on,and the fantastic, liberating feeling of freedom that I know they're about to experience. This will get to me whether it's on the beach, or when skinny dipping or strip poker happen at a party, or when people are daring each other on Big Brother - wherever, really. For it to really work, I need to see expression of liberation and freedom on their face - if I've watched someone get undressed and then they still look apprehensive and nervy afterwards, I feel a bit guilty and voyeuristic. The vast majority of people don't though, they just get this "wow, so the world didn't end! And now I'm naked! And it feels GREAT!" look on their faces. Given that I'm on a very crowded train, and will be for another 90 mins, I'd better think about something else!
(Sammyhaswoefullyneglectedyou, Mon 26 Oct 2009, 14:31, 2 replies)

The worst thing
about going to a Naturist beach or community, I find, is walking around looking at women and thinking to ones-self "Fuck, I bet she looks fantastic in a tight t-shirt".
(Rsoles, Mon 26 Oct 2009, 19:42, closed)

I don't think I've ever
Had QUITE that experience! I genuinely think a lot of women look their best with their kit off. It's just that it's so clearly not a sexual situation that there's no reason for the hormones to start firing. Most of us are used to seeing naked people solely in the context of "I want to shag you", and so find it hard to relate to how it feels when that's clearly NOT the case.
(Sammyhaswoefullyneglectedyou, Tue 27 Oct 2009, 14:44, closed)