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Have you been stalked? Or have you done the stalking? Is that you in the bushes outside with the nightvision goggles?

(, Thu 31 Jan 2008, 15:40)
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Okay, this question I can answer.
Sorry, this isn't a humourous post (for me anyway). I had a stalker.

It lasted 2 years. I started working at a ne job playing with websites, and there was a very friendly, normal normal seeming woman I was 22, she was 30. After a few weeks of working in this office it was mid-summer, having a park nearby, it made sense to have lunch on the grass, take your shoes of, etc. This woman had the same idea and we ended up sitting together and eating our sandwiches, talking about not much, I didn't really have a lot to relate to with a woman 8 years my senior and who liked Enrique Ingleasias.

One day I was off because I had a tooth pulled. I was sitting at (my parents) home, feeling like shit when I get phone call from her asking why I didn't tell her I was coming in that day, she was angry, I had no answer. I was stunned and confused as to what she thought was going on between us, I hardly knew anything about her.

This could be a lot longer so I'll cut to the chase. upto 50 text messages a day, over 1000 emails in 3 months, phone calls to my house, my parents house, quit my job, saw her outside my new work, tried to run over my girlfriend, death threats, suicide threats, threats of violence towards me and my family, she turned up at my local but luckily I wasn't there. She turned up when I was at Reading festival claiming she loved metal music and always had, meh. She turned up to gigs she thought I'd be at, posted me letters to work my parents and me.

2 years.

I ended up attempting suicide. Being told you are to blame for being stalked and that it's your fault someone has had a shit life for 2 years straight, looking over your shoulder everyday, wondering when you or your family are gonna be maimed, kinda gets to you.

/edit: If she finds this I'm dead
(, Sat 2 Feb 2008, 20:18, 7 replies)
Oh dear
That's terrible. I hope you're over it now. :-)
(, Sat 2 Feb 2008, 20:20, closed)
"Being told you are to blame for being stalked "
What? How on earth can some nutbar harassing you be your fault? That's just wrong.
(, Sat 2 Feb 2008, 21:08, closed)
Nasty
Surely with that much evidence you could have got a restraining order?
(, Sat 2 Feb 2008, 21:18, closed)
Fuck me
Nice one for coming out of it with your head intact
(, Sat 2 Feb 2008, 22:27, closed)
Whoa.
It's not easy going through something that intense, you seem to be a nice person and undeserving of this. I hope things are a lot better now.
(, Sun 3 Feb 2008, 0:30, closed)
crazy bitch!
if you've kept any of those letters, take them to the police and have her either charged or, preferably, sectioned.
(, Mon 4 Feb 2008, 2:28, closed)
Thanks a lot
for all the supportive messages. It was the most difficult thing to have gone through but I refused to let her break me completely.
(, Mon 4 Feb 2008, 17:26, closed)

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